When we are wronged, the hurt and anger can be overwhelming. There will be so much injustice done through assumptions, accusations and outright harm. When you are oppressed and wronged, we are given permission to retaliate to the oppressor in a similar fashion.
In Surah Nahl it is said:
“And if you take your turn, then retaliate with the like of that with which you were afflicted; but if you are patient, it will certainly be best for those who are patient.”
However, in such circumstances patience is encouraged and we are asked to overlook and remain patient instead of harming back.
Likewise, the next two verses proceed onto saying:
“And be patient and your patience is not but by (the assistance of) Allah, and grieve not for them, and do not distress yourself at what they plan.
Surely Allah is with those who guard (against evil) and those who do good (to others).”
This shows us that the patience we show when in distress is only through Allah’s help. Therefore, when facing hardship, it is imperative to seek help from Allah.
Further, we are asked not to give in to the anxieties caused by fearing further harm from our enemies nor worry much on their behalf. It assures us that indeed Allah is with those who show good behaviour to others and He will take care of it.
Therefore, the verses above gives us the blueprint, the guidance and the assurance to dealing with those who harm us.
Sharika Mubarack for Zasha’s Thoughts