I met a friend the other day, someone who, years ago, swore they would never marry again.
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Their divorce had been bitter, painful. They told me back then, “Never again. I’d rather be alone than risk that kind of heartbreak.”
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Fast forward to today, and they are happily married. Not just content but genuinely, deeply happy.
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Experiencing a divorce makes it easy to believe that the best love was behind you. That what you had was your only shot. That maybe love just isn’t meant for you.
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However, divorce doesn’t mean love is over. It means you’ve cleared space for the love that was always meant to stay.
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If you are a divorcee struggling to find hope, these lessons are for you.
🌸Your Heart didn’t break. It rebuilt.
Divorce changes you. It forces you to look at love differently, to reflect, to grow. That’s not a bad thing.
Hence, the next time you’re looking for love that aligns with who you truly are.
🌸The Love You Deserve Won’t Feel Like the Love You Lost
The past love may have been passionate, but was it peaceful?
Real and lasting love won’t leave you questioning your worth. It won’t be a battle you’re always trying to win.
It will feel like home. Like peace. Like true partnership, not just passion.
🌸You are not starting over. You are starting wiser.
You are not the same person who once settled for less than they deserved.
You know what real love should feel like.
This means you’re finally ready to receive it.
🌸Do your healing.
The best relationships happen when you aren’t waiting to be saved but are already standing strong.
So take your time. Heal. Fall in love with your life again.
When the right person arrives, you’ll know that your best love story hasn’t even started yet.
The Prophet (ﷺ) said:
“No believer suffers a calamity and says, ‘Indeed, we belong to Allah, and to Him we return. O Allah, reward me for my affliction and replace it with something better,’ except that Allah will compensate them with something better.” (Muslim)
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With love,
Sharika
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